In a far-too-telling episode of Friends, Joey and Chandler discover that they're suddenly getting a porn channel for free. But then they learn that if they shut off the TV or change the channel, the glitch will fix itself and they'll lose their free porn. So they do the logical thing: keep the porn on … Continue reading Fix Your Eyes, Fix Your Addiction
Sex Addiction and Recovery
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Fix Your Heart, Fix Your Addiction

Addiction isn't something you like, it's something you need. Addiction isn't doing too much of something, it's losing all concept of too much. And it starts in your heart. In order to help people currently going through addictions, I thought I'd share a few stories from my recovery. While they mostly apply to sex addiction, … Continue reading Fix Your Heart, Fix Your Addiction
5 Tips for Sexual Addicts Who Want Out

Those of you who regularly follow my blog (Hi, Mom and like two other people!) might think this is a strange shift in topics for me, but not really. I've blogged in the past about my own struggles with pornography addiction and my desire to help others with it. But more than that, I'm a … Continue reading 5 Tips for Sexual Addicts Who Want Out
Ramblings of an Addict on the Verge of Relapse
I woke up at 4am today and knew I was in trouble. 4am is, in my body's stupid opinion, late enough. This boggles me because the earliest I've ever had to set my alarm is 5am, and I haven't had that job for two weeks! I'm supposed to be an unemployed lazy bum sleeping til … Continue reading Ramblings of an Addict on the Verge of Relapse
Skintillation
It was one of the most graphic dreams I remember ever having. I'm not saying vivid, necessarily, I'm talking sexually graphic. A nothing-held-back, everything-out-there, XXX-rated dream. I don't know who this girl was; my mind just made her up--in fact, that was the point. She was a perfect stranger, yet for some reason (probably the … Continue reading Skintillation